Comments on: Body found: Emily Sander/Zoey Zane?

By: J

Thu, 06 Dec 2007 15:39:14 +0000

Em..your funeral is today…and we miss u so much! it’s still unreal, and this last goodbye is coming way too fast! watch over all of us, and we will see u again someday!

RIP Babygirl!

By: Always Amazed

Always Amazed — Wed, 05 Dec 2007 02:38:59 +0000

I have but one question. When did Jesus hand over the god-o-meter to you? We are not here to judge. Pray for her family and find the killer.

By: Jon

Jon — Sun, 02 Dec 2007 18:04:49 +0000

I’ve deleted the url of a site sponsoring the reward mentioned above and I’ll be doing a post on that in a moment.

It points to a T&A site, complete with nudes and links, and to me, looks suspiciously like an effort to cash in on Emily’s murder.

If the company behind it is genuinely doing this to help find Emily’s killer, the page would have contained that information, and nothing else.

Meanwhile, below the banking information that’s posted on the genuine zoeyzane.com.

If you would like to contribute to this reward fund you may visit any

Bank of America Branch and depostit funds to the following account:

Routing Number # 101100045
Checking Account # 518000337676

If you would like to send a check:
You can send your check to any Bank of America.
In the Pay To field write “Reward Fund for Emily Sander”
In the memo area write the acccount number : “Account : 518000337676″

If you would like to send via PayPal:
EmilySanderRewardFund@yahoo.com

We thank Bank Of America for working with us and setting this up.

By: countrym

countrym — Sun, 02 Dec 2007 16:59:38 +0000

I think everyone needs to forget and drop the whole porn part of this entire thing. Emily's killer needs to be found and that should be the main focus of this whole story.

With the help of the orginal site that was behind the zoey zane webpage a reward has been set-up to help find this awful killer and bring him to jutice.

By: Alabama Thinking

Alabama Thinking — Sun, 02 Dec 2007 13:51:29 +0000

You know….I don’t understand why this Young girl is being profiled by what she did to earn money. First of all. The more the media makes the headlines look like sex, the faster the public will buy it. it’s all about money. I have one daughter and I am not saying I would enjoy finding out she has been doing this by no means. That’s called respect. I dont think she did the web site to hurt her family. She wasn’t hurting herself, just her image of how someone thinks of her and most that knew her….if they would answer you honestly…I bet they would tell you they wish they had the guts to do this. To many people…Male or Female…..to show yourself on the web is a fantasy…Amatures send out pictures everyday for people to see….for no charge…just look at your e mail….Bottom line here…Sex sells…thats it…because you show off…charge for more explicit pictures….doesnt make you less than a Human…It is a proven fact….in anything in life..the better the product….the more it cost….and people will sometimes buy the best…But keep this in mind…If you had a choice of Digging ditches for a living…making $ 10.00 an hour….or buying a $40.00 web cam and having people send you hundreds of dollars a day for some exotic pictures…Which would you chose?…..The Honest church ones that attends church every time the door is open will say….Digging ditches….the average person will be checking their bank accout to see how many people deposited money and joined their site…How many Church leaders….Decons….live a double life….I know of some that have been busted for dealing dope…..and standing right up there in the choir singing like there isn’t no tomorrow…or you see them in a casino 3 hours away….they want you to believe they are truly a person of God…when they are only trash themselves….Please….Stop calling this young girl names….let’s focus on the what it’s going to take to bring these people in…serve justice……Emily didn’t kill anyone…and stop this….Live by the sword…die by the sword garbage…She chose a business that is quickly becoming one of the biggest money making jobs of all time….She made more money in 2 hours than most of us make in a week….I am not defending her job….but…it takes alot for a person to do what she did….I call it entertainment…..you have the option to buy a ticket…if you dont like it….you might as well sell your computer…because everyother pop up or web site you go too….has an add for sex….She siezed the moment….milked it for what it was worth…..I dont blame her at all….I never seen her site…Never knew she even existed till now….and most of the time….the ones that are blasting her for what she did…..has their home page set for a porn site themselves…and they only say hurtfull things about someone else just to hide or justify what they are doing behind their closed doors…The killing of this Little girl just happend to be senceless….and remember….this was someones daughter….so keep the negative comments about her being something you wish you could be to yourself….Either have some comforting words for this grieving family….or just disappear…..

By: Re: Confused

Re: Confused — Sun, 02 Dec 2007 00:36:12 +0000

“I’m no expert but from what I’ve read, this young lady was a nude model”. For your information nude modeling is a sex act. She posed in a sexually inviting manner and got paid for it: Prostitute. The site she was in was not even for purposes of “art”. It was a sex site, where viewers get sexual gratification while she engaged in lesbianism, and masturbation, etc.

It is just so funny how porn peddlers glamorize prostitution. Let’s see how about fancy cover-up names like” “Model” “Adult performer” “Exotic dancer” “Internet performer” “Internet actress” “Web-cam girl” etc etc etc. While prostitutes may specialize in certain fields, they are prostitutes nonetheless.

And for the record no one is glad this girl, who needed help, was killed. It’s just that she should not have chosen the field she chose, because it is the field of human trash. Too bad for her… life can be tragic.

By: Re: Indypendnt's comments

Re: Indypendnt's comments — Sun, 02 Dec 2007 00:23:15 +0000

First of all I’m talking about money worshiping prostitutes in general and this girl happened to have chosen that life. I never said I’m glad she is dead, and I never said she deserved death. But I am talking about the environment and mentality she chose… And it sickens me seeing how many young girls blindly go into this crap, and scum like you who encourage them and tell them it’s alright.

“If she is a prostitute then so what?” I’m glad you feel that way, and hopefully the mother that gave birth to you is one as well. Since, according to you it’s alright for a woman to be a prostitute and also bear children It should really satisfy you knowing that the female whose vagina you came out of had at one time, many, many penises of all shapes, sizes, and colors go in there. After all “so what?”

“Your so-called “God” values the life of his Creation”. An Atheist who wants to talk about God? OK. I’m assuming you are talking about the Christian God… if so then He created and values all life, yes. But not after they choose to live against his word while living on God’s planet. And what you Atheists do not understand is that God does not control people while they are on planet Earth. Everyone has a choice, yes. But when they leave this planet they will have to then answer to their chosen life. No I am not God and I am not speaking for Him, but maybe God will show different degrees of mercy (or rage) to people who commit the same sin based on other circumstances, but then again maybe not.

“did what she thought was necessary and most importantly HARMED NO ONE”. No the pitiful environment she found herself in chose for her as far as what she should do. Her family, friends and immoral media that she was exposed to chose her career path for her. At 18 I doubt that is enough time for one to have lived and make the right choices in one’s life. And harm? Well maybe not physically harmed .. but I am sure emotionally she did. Her parents for one, her boyfriend as well, who broke up with her because of her choices.

Oh and according to your logic the future children she may have who one day stumble upon her pictures and videos on the net would not get harmed emotionally, right? It should be OK according to your Atheist Philosophy and logic. Her children may also masturbate to their mother’s pictures, and according to all you Atheists, why even stop there? Family members should also engage in incest, because that can feel good. Why limit yourself to what Christianity taught 2,000 years ago? Remember Atheist: What YOU believe is more correct and important than anything else that has come before you. After all that is what Atheism is all about: Selfishness. You believe you are so “smart” that you have figured out religion is wrong and most others on this planet are blind and stupid, but not you. The bible teaches against incest and bestiality, but hey remember you are an Atheist and that is not for you. Stop reading this nonsense I am typing and hurry up and find some animals to have sex with and post on an internet site… after all it “harms no one else” and “the money is good”.

“you are a hypocrite because your philosophy only allows one way: YOUR way” No, idiot. It is not my philosophy. Many, many people also believe “my way” and have done so for 2,000 years and countless have also given their lives for it. “My way” is something I have learned while growing up. Fortunately for me I was not surrounded by prostitutes, pimps, murderers, drug-addicts, and the like to have been influenced by them.

“Tolerance, empathy and sympathy are all human qualities. Your point of view holds none of them.” You forgot integrity, which is apparently OK for people to lack in your book. And tolerance? It may be a human quality but tolerance to what? How about you have children and a convicted child molester moves in next door? Or a rapist, or murderer? Oh right you tolerate those because you are a true human. I never said I have no sympathy or felt no empathy for this girl who lost her life. Stop making conclusions on me just because I am against these lost, confused and immoral kids nowadays who go into porn.

It’s really sick how, at least in America, all you so-called “Atheists” reap all the benefits of Christianity and actually live a Christian lifestyle and then run around claiming how religion is wrong, how it is brainwashing, how it is harmful, blah blah blah. All the while you have no explanation for life as we know it. A bunch of selfish clowns, that’s all I can think of for your titles.

By: Confused

Confused — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 06:37:27 +0000

I thought porn was pictures and movies of sex acts… I’m no expert but from what I’ve read, this young lady was a nude model. No different than the models that walk the runway in see through shirts.

Whatever, you are justifying murder. That is wrong. No matter what the victim’s occupation is, murder is wrong. I guess you would think it’s okay to rape a girl because she dresses sexy?

Let us all be clear on what you said:
“Just another dead prostitute slut. They find em in dumpsters all the time. No real tragedy here.”

What in the world posessed you to say something like that? Are you depressed? Do you need someone to talk to? I suggest you seek a therapist immediately.

By: Justice

Justice — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 05:29:05 +0000

Lets find the suspected perp. Who do you know in the area that he/she was seen last ? Lets help find the alleged person who was with her last.

By: George Vreeland Hill

George Vreeland Hill — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 04:41:32 +0000

I hope they find her alive, but it does not look good.
She could have had a bright future.
Girls who do this (porn) have to be very careful.
Far too many have bad endings.
This may or may not be porn related, but it should be a warning to others.
This is a bad world.
I am,

George Vreeland Hill

By: Indypendnt

Indypendnt — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 03:41:48 +0000

that would be peace, not piece.

By: Indypendnt

Indypendnt — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 03:39:49 +0000

To the statement of the definition of a prostitute… I was very tempted to contest every word you called her to the fullest. But you know what? Sticks and stones… To each his own and argument makes the world go round… However, IF she is a hoar, IF she is a prostitute, then so what? Your so-called “God” values the life of his Creation and INTENDS for her to make those choices… Ok, so maybe you’re not a creationist. Your so-called “God” knew this girl for who she truly was. She lived her life, did what she thought was necessary and most importantly HARMED NO ONE. I don’t care what YOU think is immoral. Its not up to YOU. But surely you know that and have taken into account and state your OPINION (and this is mine) knowing that it is NOT the only RIGHT way to think… If you say yes to that… then you are a hypocrite because your philosophy only allows one way: YOUR way. If you say no, then apparently you think you’re God. Good for you. Either way you lose. You have every right to pass judgement on others and express it. Its guaranteed by the first amendment. Your logic is flawed, however, no matter how you look at it. Tolerance, empathy and sympathy are all human qualities. Your point of view holds none of them. The conservative self-righteous has far fewer morals than the girl you claim to “feel” bad for. She made her decision. It was hers to make. She made the right choice. She is where she chose. Let her rest in piece. The shame is on you, heartless.

By: Reader's Write

Reader's Write — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 03:01:51 +0000

Definition of prostitute: One who solicits and accepts payment for sex acts. So let me reiterate this for you: SHE WAS A PROSTITUTE. Maybe you did not fully comprehend that so let me put it to you another way and you can choose any one of these terms: She was a HOOKER, CALL-GIRL, WHORE. And you know why? Because of desperate, morally bankrupt, insecure, idiotic men have somehow shown up in the American scene who do not have a problem with dating and marrying women in porn (As if relationships and marriage with women in porn has any kind of validity or value). And your excuse? “The money is good” or “I have to support myself”. What a shame.

By: Reader's Write

Reader's Write — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 02:33:54 +0000

She was never a prostitute, you ignorant moron. She was a solo girl who did striptease videos in front of her webcam. There is nothing wrong with how she chose to earn an income. But that is completely irrelevant. She was murdered, and intolerant people like you have no sympathy for her just because you don’t approve of her line of work. Guess what, neither do most people, but we still have the decency to put our differences aside and give her family the compassion they deserve in their time of need. It does not make us morally bankrupt. Everyone has their own principles, but if you can’t forgive the mistakes someone may have made in a time of tragedy, then you are seriously fucked up.

By: Reader's Write

Reader's Write — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 01:49:37 +0000

It amazes me how morally bankrupt people have become. I agree with Whatever. First and foremost this girl chose to be a PROSTITUTE. And while you can talk crap against people who do not agree with her choices in life, when so-called family members and “friends” find out a prostitute has been murdered they all come out of their holes like rats claiming how tragic it is to lose a life and “God bless her”, “Our prayers are with the family” BLAH BLAH BLAH. All of a sudden “God” and “Prayers” are used liberally, whereas before said individual was just a plain prostitute leading a sordid life and no one ever “Prayed” for her. Tell me SO-CALLED FAMILY: Where the hell are you when these lost, confused prostitutes are running around taking drugs, prostituting, possibly spreading disease, spreading immorality, damaging their bodies and minds beyond repair, placing themselves in harms-way and on and on?? Where were you then if you so cared for your “loved one”?

By: Reader's Write

Reader's Write — Fri, 30 Nov 2007 23:55:29 +0000

My thoughts and prayers are with the family of Emily Sander. As the sister of a homicide victim, it is heart wrenching to read the horrible, disgusting comments by some people on these boards. To her family-Please understand that people make such insensitive remarks because they are ignorant. They believe if they villify the victim they can protect thier version of reality by convincing themselves that such a crime can only happen to certain people. They do not understand that this girl was a daughter, a sister, a friend. They do not understand that thier comments are salt in the wound to those who loved Emily. I don’t believe they truly mean what they say. God bless you, Emily’s friends and family.

By: Reader's Write

Reader's Write — Fri, 30 Nov 2007 23:40:56 +0000

Everything whatever has said is 100% correct.

By: whatevermya%$

whatevermya%$ — Fri, 30 Nov 2007 23:18:26 +0000

I went to school with this girl and I am very upset that she is more than likely gone. She was a very sweet and always had a crush of some sort. but in no way did the occupation she chose lead to her death if you haven’t heard what the investigators are saying yet. Oh yeah WHATEVER, I hope you suffer the consequenses of your sh$t talking

By: whatever

whatever — Fri, 30 Nov 2007 21:40:56 +0000

I assume you were addressing what I said. I never once said she deserved to be murdered. And I think the person or persons who killed her should be tried accordingly. My point is that that sort of occupation (if you can even call it that) is filled with deviants, drug addicts, social losers and miscreants. And she who chooses to surround herself with such fodder will suffer the consequences. As I said before, if I chose to be invloved with such people would I not expect to be at increased risk of nefarious activities, ie my death?

And the media is shit I give you that but that is what she was, a “porn star”. If she danced at topless bars would you be offended if they labeled her a “stripper”. If she worked at a restaurant would you be offended if they called her a “waitress”. She was what she was. Most likely a nice person who chose easy money at the cost of her innocence, and this is where it led.

By: Gouranga

Gouranga — Fri, 30 Nov 2007 21:26:28 +0000

Personally…as a father of 4 daughters, I would be very disappointed if one of them choice that line of work. However, I would be infuriated beyond the point of rational thought when the news agencies showed my family so little respect as to make their headlines “Porn stars body found.”, or “Missing Porn star found”. A mobster is killed because he enters a lifestyle where he kills. A porn star does not run around killing people. She does NOT do anything illegal. Immoral I will give you. Either she is dead, she was murdered by some freaking phsycopath and to try to rationalize that she asked for it or deserved it in anyway because of her occupation is rediculous.
As usual the news outlets are trying to skew the headlines to sensationalize and force us all to think of it as they do. A porn star was not murdered, a beloved, young woman with a family and friends was murdered. My thoughts and prayers to out to her family and friends who now now only have to deal with this crushing loss but also doubly so by seeing this woman not referred by name but as “porn star” with photos from those sites (or parts of the photos) being shown. These news agencies are sick, twisted, and soul-less.