‘Megan Meier had it coming’: Lori Drew ‘blog’
p2pnet news | P2P:- The Missouri family who created Josh Evans, a fake MySpace user whose Net post may have led to a young girl to hang herself, won’t be prosecuted.
“Lori Drew, the mother of a former friend of Megan … described to police how she and others, including then 18-year-old Ashley Grills, had made up the love interest, a 16-year-old Josh Evans – obstensibly to see what the 13-year-old [Megan] Meier might be saying about Drews’ daughter, Sarah,” p2pnet posted last month, going on:
“A quote from Political State Report, it reads like a bad script.
“But it’s real and from all accounts, it led directly to Megan’s death a year ago.”
Now, “No charges will be filed in connection with the October 2006 suicide death of 13-year-old Megan Meier, of Dardenne Prairie, who was the victim of a MySpace hoax involving a boy who never existed,” says the St Charles Journal.
Lori Drew who, like the Meiers, lives in Dardenne Prairie, has had little to say to the media, but Megan Had It Coming, is the header of a blog.
“It’s time I dropped the charade,” it says. “Yes, I made this blog. Yes, I’m Lori Drew.”
It goes on:
My daughter had nothing to do with this. Everyone needs to leave her alone. None of you can possibly know her involvement, and none of you can possibly know what she’s gone through. She’s just a kid. She doesn’t deserve these brutal verbal attacks. Please stop.
Now that Mr. Banas has made public the announcement that there will be no charges filed against me or my family, I feel it is time to speak out about this tragic affair. I cannot count on any media organization to fairly represent my story, as they have grossly misrepresented and sensationalized the story so far. So, I must present my case here, on the blog that has been my only outlet.
‘The world would be a better place without you’
St Charles County prosecuting attorney Jack Banas says he reviewed state laws regarding harassment, stalking and child endangerment, “and concluded that the intent of those who created the fake MySpace account did not meet the criminal threshold,” says the St Charles Journal, going on:
In fact, Banas said, Lori J. Drew, 48, the woman down the street who was involved in creating the fake account for ‘Josh Evans,’ was not even home on the day several mean messages were sent to Megan through the Josh account, including one that stated, ‘The world would be a better place without you’.
Ron Meier, Megan’s father, said he believes that is the final message Megan saw before she went upstairs to her room and hanged herself.
Banas said Mrs. Drew had just arrived home when she saw the ambulance down the street, at the Meiers’ house, and that she quickly learned from her daughter and from a temporary employee about the messages that had been sent to Megan from “Josh.”
Ron and Tina Meier, Megan’s parents, learned of Banas’ decision on Friday.
“I am very disappointed, very let down,” Ron Meier said Monday.
“It is almost worse to hear it this time than it was to hear it the first time.”
According to Banas, quoted in the story, most of the messages, “sent to Megan as Josh over six weeks were written by Ashley Grills, then 18, of O’Fallon, a temporary employee of Lori Drew’s business, Drew Advantage. Grills often worked from the Drews’ home.”
The Drews’ daughter, “had been an on-again, off-again friend of Megan’s for several years,” says the story, but, “in the summer of 2006 the two girls had a falling out.
‘Megan readily accepted Josh Evans as a friend’
The St Charles Journal goes on:
Banas said that it was Grills who surfed the Internet and found Megan’s MySpace account. Megan would not accept either Grills or the Drews’ daughter as a “friend” on her account.
But Megan readily accepted Josh Evans as a friend. The phony account included the photo of a handsome 16-year-old boy who said he was new to the area, from a broken home and found Megan attractive. Megan and Josh struck up a friendship.
Banas said it was Grills who created the Josh Evans MySpace account.
Tina Meier closely monitored the account. She has said her daughter for many years had battled depression and struggled to keep her weight down and was thrilled that Josh had taken an interest in her. Megan had switched school to Immaculate Conception in Dardenne Prairie and was the happiest she had been in years, her parents say.
Banas said that Mrs. Drew said she did not know Megan suffered from depression. Tina Meier has disputed that, saying Megan took vacations with the Drews and they knew.
Banas said that Mrs. Drew said she knew Megan had attention deficit disorder.
The actions of the Drews and Grills are not criminal under existing state law, Banas said, because their intent was never to harm, stalk, endanger or harass.
“They did it so they could find out what Megan was saying about Mrs. Drew’s daughter,” Banas said. “That is undisputed.
“The only purpose was to find out what one little girl was saying about another little girl,” he said.
It would not have mattered, Banas said, had Mrs. Drew typed the final messages.
Here’s Lori Drew’s story as she supposedly tells it on the blog, declaring, “Here I am, internet. Come get me >>>
You don’t understand what the last two years have been like, living in this town, dealing with these people. When we came here, the Meiers seemed like a great family with whom we could form a friendship. Tina sold us our house and our little girls became fast friends. It was typical. Sleepovers and vacations and events in the community. The girls were inseparable.
We knew Megan and we liked having her around, at first. But as the months went on, we saw a change in our daughter. She was increasingly disturbed and defensive. We thought the effects of puberty were taking hold. But, we soon realized the negative influence was Megan. Megan had her bright and perky side, but she also had her dark side. We knew that she suffered from depression, so we tried to be supportive and patient. We talked to Ron and Tina about our concerns, but they would have none of it. Their precious Megan couldn’t be the problem — and they said we should feel bad for even suggesting it of a poor, mentally ill child.
It only got worse from there. Megan found out that we had gone to her parents and she worked to drive a wedge between our daughter and us. We fought back the only way we knew how: we supported our daughter and explained to her what we thought. She agreed with us, and that’s when the fallout started.
When Sarah stopped going along with Megan’s antics, Megan took it especially hard and lashed out. She called my daughter every nasty name in the book, swore to never be friends again and stormed out. Then a few days later they were friends again, Megan would try to manipulate Sarah, Sarah wouldn’t buy it, and Megan would become furious again. Then came the MySpace attack. Not the one you’re reading about in the news, but the one that started this whole thing.
After the final break-up in their frienship, Megan coordinated a MySpace attack on my daughter. Since she didn’t have access to MySpace herself, she had to work through friends. I wasn’t too surprised because I knew that Megan was grounded from MySpace the previous year after she made a fake profile with a friend to go prank and bully a classmate they didn’t like.
Fortunately, that prank didn’t go far, and neither did her latest attempted prank on my daughter. But the damage was done to my child, and I knew what kind of child Megan was, depression or not.
Now I had nothing but sympathy for Megan’s condition. But my sympathy has limits. When you come after my daughter and try to hurt her like that, my patience wears out. This troubled child was no longer able to poison my baby in person, so she decided to reach out on the Internet to do it instead. Like any parent, when you see the ill-behaved child next door causing trouble for your family, you want to wring the neck of the parents who let it happen. But, as Megan’s parents made it clear earlier, they were not about to come down on their precious Megan. I had no recourse with them. And, forbidding the children from seeing each other was not effective because Megan could simply harass my daughter online.
Then, my daughter heard that Megan was lobbying her parents to get her MySpace back. I was instantly terrified. That little monster was a tremendous poison for my daughter as-is. I didn’t want to think about what kind of damage she would do if she had total access to the internet. I talked the situation over with people I knew and trusted, who told me to be very afraid. Teenage bullying was rampant on MySpace, and there were very few, if any, legal options for people being harassed. Everyone’s advice was: if you’re harassed, your only option is to delete your profile and run. It won’t stop people from saying bad things about you, but at least you won’t have to see it.
I wanted to hide my daughter away from all of this, and delete her MySpace, but she begged and pleaded with me to let her stay. I know it’s MySpace and it’s a social hub for teens today and I didn’t want my daughter to be the only one without, so I relented.
Instead, I worked with a couple of people I knew to create a profile so I could keep tabs on Megan. They helped me add pictures and graphics and music so it would look like a boy that Megan would want to talk to. We didn’t totally know what we were doing with the Josh Evans persona, or where it would lead, so I kept it quiet. We did our best to shmooze Megan into opening up. I complimented her pictures and said how great she was. I very gently asked her about her school life and her friends hoping that if she was planning any attack on my daughter that we would be one step ahead of her and could take this evidence to her parents, show them what their daughter is up to so they would finally take action.
A couple of weeks went by and Megan was buying it. We were surprised at how she could be so nice to “Josh” and still have an undercurrent of negativity when she talked about school friends. We wanted to make sure she wasn’t going to try anything to get back at Sarah, so we kept the account going. When Megan started talking about being in love and wanting to do boyfriend/girlfriend stuff with “Josh” I got concerned. How do we keep going for information AND figure out a way to let her down gently once we were convinced nothing was going to happen? What if we let her down, and she regressed and came after my daughter anyway? I was becoming very confused and concerned then. Megan was unpredictable and I absolutely did NOT want her harassing my child. I didn’t know what to do, so I kept going. I played down her innuendo. Anytime she became explicit, “Josh” backed off and kept the compliments above board.
Then I found out that Megan’s parents were actively monitoring the account! Everything that had been going on, they were witness to. This troubled me deeply: were they not concerned when their 13 year old daughter wanted to have heavy duty make out sessions with a 16 year old boy? Hello!
I had “Josh” friend other people that Megan knew all the while so that if anyone else knew of anything that was going to happen, we’d have that much more chance of staying ahead of the game. One of the girls we friended even figured out that the profile was fake. We let her in on it, and asked what she wanted. Turns out, she wasn’t friendly with Megan, either, so she wanted to help. I gave her access to the account.
It wasn’t long after that that we saw what was being said on other accounts: Megan was still mad at Sarah and was very quiety spreading cruel rumors. She kept it off her own MySpace because she knew that kind of stuff would get her grounded off it again. I was furious! Not only was Megan obviously not going to stop until she had her revenge, but now there was no way to get any evidence about it.
That’s when I decided I would have to teach Megan a lesson and give her a taste of her own medicine.
I decided that I would shut down the Josh account, and not be nice about it. Megan’s feelings be damned, and to hell with her consequence! I was going to protect my daughter no matter what. So I sent the break up e-mail to Megan saying that Josh didn’t want to be friends because Megan was very cruel to her friends. Naturally, Megan freaked, and I tried to keep the messages short and sweet. As a last resort bargaining chip, I figured that if she really loved Josh then maybe he could pressure her into stopping her lies. But it didn’t work, and the situation devolved lightning fast.
Megan was screaming at Josh for answers on who he had been talking to: she wanted to know who ratted her out so she could take out revenge on them, too. I shared Megan’s messages with everyone involved and encouraged everyone to stand up against her and not take her crap anymore.
Instead, once the word got out about Megan, so did all her romantic replies, as well as a few secrets and the MySpace crowd ganged up on her.But I didn’t realize that this group would react that way. I expected a certain amount of bullying, and I was OK with it. I wanted Megan to get a taste of what she had been dishing out this whole time. But I didn’t want it to go as far as it did. It’s true that the slut and fat references came out of what I shared. And by the time I was done with work on that day, the bullying against Megan had progressed pretty far. I had heard about the “better off without you” message and that’s when I told everyone to cool it. Megan had been punished enough, and I was satisfied that she would think twice before bullying or manipulating anyone again. I don’t know who wrote that “better off without you” message.
That night I saw the ambulance lights at the Meier house, and then I saw them take Megan out on a stretcher. I was stunned and horrified. I wasn’t sure what had happened, and when they had said Megan tried to kill herself, I didn’t believe it. Yes, Megan suffered from depression, but she was always laughing and smiling when we were on vacations, or at sleep overs. After the shock wore off, I panicked: what if Megan ended her life after what happened on MySpace? It seemed ridiculous. When kids were bullied, they went to their rooms and cried — even the depressed ones. They didn’t hang themselves.
I was distraught over the event, so I instructed the key people involved to stay quiet to protect themselves against any counter-bullying, and I deleted the Josh profile. I kept the truth from the Meier family because there was simply no reason to come forward. Their little girl died the next day at the hospital. Their lives were destroyed. What good would it do to inform them that their daughter’s MySpace boyfriend was a fake? They wouldn’t believe that their daughter was a MySpace bully and a real life manipulator when she was alive, so why add to their grief now? I stayed quiet. I went to the funeral to pay my respects to this troubled child who took herself to a tragic end. We mourned the loss of a girl who once was a good friend. We all tried to get on with our lives.
Little by little rumors of the cause of Megan’s suicide spread. Of course the Josh break-up was mentioned, as was the MySpace bullying. People talked about the need to stop MySpace bullying. There were a couple of news reports, but it never went anywhere.
Until six weeks later when one of the girls involved decided to link me to the issue. When Megan’s parents found out that the Josh account was me, they focused all of their rage and pain and guilt at me. Instantly, what had been a mysterious suicide with no definite answers became a personal vendetta.
Just like Megan, her parents showed their dark side and scared the holy hell out of me when they dumped our smashed foosball table on our driveway. Instantly I knew we were dealing with unbalanced people. Aggravated by their child’s death and their own culture of anxiety, I very much feared for my family. I made sure to report the incident to the police so the Meiers would know that we would stand up for ourselves and that the police were watching, should they choose to do something rash.
A little bit after that, I decided to try to diffuse the situation and confront the parents. I would lay out everything I knew, all the intent, and everything I thought. If they didn’t want to accept the truth about their daughter, then there was nothing else I could do. But I would at least try. Unfortunately, Tina & Ron would have none of it. They wouldn’t talk to us, they wouldn’t deal with us. Ron pretty much came unglued when we made one last attempt. They had nothing but raw hatred for us, and they wouldn’t listen. That’s when I realized it was hopeless.
The police investigation was especially frightening. We cooperated as best we could. I provided my statement, but I was not satisfied with the officer who took it. He got most of the details wrong, and he left out intricacies that I’ve explained here. When I tried to get the report corrected, an officer at the desk said she was familiar with our case, and flat out refused to allow us to amend our statement. That was the beginning of the backlash. That it came from a police officer truly shook us.
The investigators asked both us and the Meiers to remain quiet about the issue while they conducted their work. They warned us of small town mob violence and undue media attention. We agreed and went on with our lives. We heard almost nothing for nearly nine months. Our lives seemed to be getting back to normal, despite the family down the street that still grieved visibly and had devolved into fights and separation. I truly felt bad for them. They lost their baby, and now they were tearing themselves apart because the pain wasn’t getting any better. I made sure to kiss and hug my Sarah every night and tell her how much I loved her. We actually grew closer from it.
Then the investigation was over. No charges would be filed. We were relieved. It felt like a weight had finally been lifted from us. But not so for Tina & Ron. They had focused their rage on us and blamed us for everything. I could understand their pain and their guilt, but I had had enough of their accusations. One day I did snap and told Tina to “give it a rest.” Looking back, it was insensitive to say. But, you have to understand that for months we had been dealing with a family that didn’t want to listen to our side of the story and only called for us to “be gone.” Like I said, my sympathy has limits.
After the investigation, Tina made it clear she wasn’t going to let this go. We weren’t sure what to expect, but we had grown to be dismissive of her and her incoherent ranting. Then came the newspaper article, which instantly painted us as hoaxers who were out to make Megan kill herself.
You see, this is why I now have an extreme distrust for any media: they paint the story in whatever way gets the most readers. Everyone from Pokin to Andersoon Cooper has painted this story as if we set out to destroy Megan, as if her suicide was a foregone conclusion of our actions. But it’s not. We didn’t know Megan was going to do what she did. If we knew it was going to end like that, I wouldn’t have started this whole thing. I had no intention for Megan to be so drastic. I wanted her to learn a lesson so she could be a better person. I didn’t want her to die.
Then Sarah Wells outed me. Then the hate and harassment and threats poured in. Even against my daughter. First there were dozens of calls, then hundreds, then there was national news, and everyone went crazy.
That’s why I started this blog and posted as “Kirsten.” I was so angry at the world for being so unfair, especially when it came to my daughter whom I had sworn to protect from all of this. I took a low blow at Megan’s memory because I desperately wanted the world to at least get a glimpse of the truth.
But that’s all over now. The final word from authorities has come down that there will be no charges, so I don’t have to remain silent. There’s no point in hiding anymore. The internet has made it clear that mob revenge must prevail, even if there’s no justice in it. So be it.
Here I am, internet. Come get me.
Stay tuned.
Also See:
p2pnet – ‘Megan Meier’s law’ passed, November 26, 2007
St Charles Journal – No charges to be filed over Meier suicide, December 4, 2007
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December 4th, 2007 at 2:36 pm
I’m not sure that blog is real–could possibly be a fake? Troll bait?
December 4th, 2007 at 3:03 pm
I doubt it. There is too much detail only they would know.
December 4th, 2007 at 7:02 pm
Suggestive title. The entry is a good read from the other side.
December 4th, 2007 at 10:12 pm
“Instead, I worked with a couple of people I knew to create a profile so I could keep tabs on Megan. They helped me add pictures and graphics and music so it would look like a boy that Megan would want to talk to. We didn’t totally know what we were doing with the Josh Evans persona, or where it would lead, so I kept it quiet. We did our best to shmooze Megan into opening up. I complimented her pictures and said how great she was. I very gently asked her about her school life and her friends hoping that if she was planning any attack on my daughter that we would be one step ahead of her and could take this evidence to her parents, show them what their daughter is up to so they would finally take action.”
her perspective on why she did it constantly changes, from this reading i have recorded three different reasons and i honestly dont buy her story. even if megan wasn’t exactly a good person and perhaps someone as that cold you do not as a parent get involved in such manners in such a way. if she was spreading rumours then you would go to the principal of the school and speak with the parents when you have proof. but you do not act like a child yourself figuratively and literally.
it is strange that she brought up the death a year later, but i think this really needs to die down. if i was in her shoes id simply be quiet and change my name and simply leave the town.
December 4th, 2007 at 10:31 pm
to add, jon i doubt the validity of this blog, i really do. no 48 year old woman is going to go on the internet and calling the girl that many people tied the girl’s death to her is going to go off calling her a “bitch” indirectly or directly. look at her answers to the posts “pwn” no real 48 year old woman says that, i mean really. unfortunately the internet gives people to be anonymous for both good and bad reasons and i just think its one of the bad reasons. this is probably perhaps the hydra of effect that has happened with the emily/zoey case in which malware and fake sites began to appear.
December 5th, 2007 at 7:55 am
There’s the right way to protect one’s children then there’s the way used by the Drews. Despite their claims that the Meiers were unstable, the Drews were just as bad. This is a case of no one is innocent. If Lori Drew had been smart, she wouldn’t have started that MySpace account and would have instead like others have suggested gone to the school’s principals, and if nothing came of it, the police. By faking a persona, she is no better than the people who pose as others to lure unsuspecting people into traps on the internet. There’s nothing wrong with not revealing your true identity, but when you start messing with someone else, that’s just low, real low. She is just as much a bully as any other, good intentions or not.
December 5th, 2007 at 8:57 am
yup it is a fake blog
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22102073/
this explains a whole different story that is given by her lawyer opposing what is written in that blog.
December 5th, 2007 at 10:07 am
The problem is adults these days can’t tell other’s kids what to do anymore. When I was a kid, any adult in the neighborhood was as good as your parent when it came to watching what you did and keeping you out of trouble. Since parents can’t do that openly anymore for fear of backlash from the parents of the local brats, how is a parent to take care of such things? This doesn’t seem to have been the best way. . .
December 6th, 2007 at 3:31 pm
I hope this woman rots in hell
December 6th, 2007 at 6:01 pm
How dare this so called mother blame the parents of this child she killed? I can’t fathom why the DA concluded that the intent was undisputed and there was never any intent to harm Megan! Of course there was! The intent was to get her to open up and publicly humiliate her. This is a thirteen year old child we are talking about. She was “OK” with the child being bullied. Why was this not child abuse? If she had been an adult male having a relationship online with a child she would have been charged. She blames not only the parents but the victim herself. I hope Mrs. Drew gets a taste of her own medicine one day.
December 7th, 2007 at 11:19 am
I don’t understand why this story is in the news now when it happened last year? Could someone explain this?
December 7th, 2007 at 1:41 pm
This whole thing really upsets me. I do not think the blog is fake because it has too much detail. I just cant beleive how Lori can go on saying all of this terrible stuff about Megan. She is gone. whats done is done. and she DOES have something to do with it. She is not as innocent as she thinks she is. Her daughter bullies people too, I am certain of it. Its what goes on in teenagers lives. You learn to live with it and accept what people dont like about you and move on. Lori had no business getting into it. She needed to tell her daughter to shake it off..and if she was truly better then what she thinks megan was saying, then Lori should have nothing to worry about. It just really upsets me how Lori makes herself seem soo innocent. When we have a family who is torn, a young girl who killed herself, because someone decides to go and be rude. It is really immature to use the whole “payback” thing..and i think all of the rumors need to quit. nobody knows exactly WHO posted the message stating the world will be better without her, and nobody will ever know..except the person who in fact did it..wether it as Lori or whoever..if it wasnt Lori i think the person who actually posted that needs to come out and say something, to at least take SOME of the blame off of Lori. Even though we all know she had something to do with it. She could at least ACT like she cares and feels sorry. I could go on for days about this. I’ll just leave it at that. The bullying over internet needs to stop. and so does creating fake accounts. It creates nothing but problems and Lori shouldve known from the beginning that it was going to start something. Maybe not something THIS big..but it wouldnt be a smooth ride.
December 7th, 2007 at 3:02 pm
one more thing…Lori mustve had some intention of megan dieing. If she didnt she wouldnt of said something so harsh. IF she had a problem with the way megan was acting..she couldve said “I am not happy with the way you are treating people” and offer some help. But to imply for her to kill herself is just taking matters WAY too far.
December 7th, 2007 at 3:08 pm
one other thing…whoever used the message “the world would be better off without you” shouldve taken into consideration what could happen. Obviously they were telling megan to go kill herself..theres no other way to imply that message. If they didnt like how megan was treating others they couldve said something else, like “your attitude needs some change if you need help ill help you”. Implying to someone that they should kill themself is taking it WAY WAY WAYYYY too far. And Lori should know that if she as “mature” as she thinks she is. She complains about the Meier’s thinking they’re daughter is innocent. Well, they’re doing the EXACT same thing.
December 7th, 2007 at 5:08 pm
I agree with Kalie. This is such a horrible thing to do. I can’t belive that a mother, a freaking mother, would go and create a myspace account to make someone miserable. That’s all i really have to say. I think Trisha and Kalie said it all.
December 7th, 2007 at 6:28 pm
Mrs. Drew fails to acknowledge her responsibility in Megan’s death. She is lying to herself and everyone else by denying responsibility in the suicide of the girl Megan. She seems to be trying to construct another identity to protect herself at this point; namely, the identity of an innocent bystander to all of this. She is so good at constructing false identities she ought to become an author and sell her stories for money. She’ll have to use a pseudo-name now, however. With all the enemies she has, no one would pay a dime for any book she may write. I hope she gets what is coming to her…
December 7th, 2007 at 8:44 pm
I know Megan, and she is not all this that Lori Drew is making her out to be.
Her daughter was not that innocent in all this.
Either was MS. Drew.
They both were sneaky in how they went about attacking Megan.
The truth be told it was MS. Drew and her daughter that started the attack on Megan.
And they did encouarge us to attack Megan and to keep on.
She knew how to make a myspace profile and she would laugh her butt off when Megan fell for this trap.
But she went too far she posted the world would be better off without you.
SHE DID that, she and her family should pay!
December 7th, 2007 at 9:11 pm
Consolidated information on the Drews. Let ‘em know how you feel.
Curt and Lori (The Bitch) Drew: 636-272-2670 – home
Curt Drew: (314) 520-8688 – cell
(636) 379-8500 – office
Lori (The Bitch) Drew: (314) 520-7916 – cell
Don’t let ‘em rest until Lori jumps off a building.
December 7th, 2007 at 9:41 pm
Are you all crazy, now who’s pretending to be someone else and drive some one crazy. You sound like a bunch of uneducated trailor trash.
P.S. try spell check assholes
December 7th, 2007 at 9:43 pm
OH NO, ARE YOU ALL GOING TO GO HANG YOURSELVES
December 7th, 2007 at 9:54 pm
MEGAN’S MOTHER IS THE GUILTY ONE, DID SHE THINK A MYSPACE RELATIONSHIP WOULD CURE HER DAUGHTERS DEPRESSION AND LOW SELF ESTEEM? IS THAT WHY SHE LET HER TALK TO SOME GUY ONLINE, WHAT IF HE WAS REALLY A 50 YR OLD CHILD RAPIST? HER MOTHER SHOULDN’T HAVE ALLOWED HER TO TALK TO ANYONE ONLINE SHE DIDN’T KNOW IN “REAL LIFE”. BOY, I BET MEGAN IS REALLY KICKING HERSELF NOW, NOW THAT SHE KNOWS WHO JOSH REALLY WAS! TOO LATE NOW, SHE MUST FEEL LIKE A REAL ASS! YOU’RE ALL FUCKING RETARDED IF YOU CHAT WITH ANYONE ONLINE-PEOPLE ARE NOT WHO THEY SAY THEY ARE- GET REAL, ARE YOU ALL REALLY THAT STUPID, DID HER MOTHER REALLY ALLOW A 13YR OLD TO HAVE ANY KIND OF A RELATIONSHIP ON LINE!!?? SHE IS 13 BAIT FOR ANY SICKO OUT THERE. IF I TELL ALL OF YOU TO GO KILL YOURSELVES RIGHT NOW, WILL YOU? LOOK AT THIS FROM ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE AND A FUCKING LIFE, GO MEET PEOPLE, FACE TO FACE.
December 7th, 2007 at 9:56 pm
WHO EVER IS PRETENDING TO BE LORI DREW, WE ALL KNOW YOU’RE REALLY A 12 YR. OLD WITH NOTHING BETTER TO DO, IS YOUR MOMMY THERE WITH YOU, SHE NEEDS TO MAKE SURE YOU DON’T KILL YOURSELF, YOU STUPID FUCK
December 7th, 2007 at 9:58 pm
IF LORI JUMPS OFF A BUILDING YOU’RE ALL GUILTY, YOU ALL WILL BE ARRESTED
December 7th, 2007 at 10:06 pm
LORI DREW IS TO BLAME SHE LURED A 13 YR OLD
SHE TOLD THIS GIRL LIES
SHE BROKE THIS GIRLS HEART
SHE TOLD THIS GIRL THE WORLD WOULD BE BETTER OFF WITHOUT HER.
SHE MAY AS WELL PUT A GUN IN HER HAND AND PULLED THE TRIGGER
MANY TEENS HAVE FRIENDS ONLINE YOU CANNOT TELL YOUR CHILD NOT TO HAVE FRIENDS ONLINE BUT WHEN THEY WANT TO MEET THEM IS WHEN YOU HAVE TO BEWARE.
THIS IS IN NO WAY THE MOTHERS FAULT.
THIS IS LORI DREW’S FAULT
AND IF YOU CAN’T FUCKING SEE THIS “THE SAD TRUTH” THEN YOU ARE RELATED TO LORI DREW OR A FRIEND OF HER DAUGHTERS
YOU HAVE ROSE COLORED GLASSES ON AND ONLY SEE WHAT YOU WANT TO SEE.
LORI DREW IS GUILTY AND SHE WILL HAVE TO LIVE WITH THIS ALONG WITH HER DAUGHTER WHO NOW HAS HARDLY NO FRIENDS NO LIFE BECAUSE OF WHAT HER MOM DID TO PROTECT HER.
THAT CHILD SHOULD BE TAKEN OUT OF THE CARE OF LORI FUCKING BITCH DREW!
December 7th, 2007 at 10:09 pm
NO MOST PEOPLE WILL NOT KILL THEMSELVES OVER SOMETHING LIKE THIS BUT A 13 YR OLD WITH SELF ESTEEM AND EMOTIONAL ISSUES WOULD.
AND LORI DREW KNEW THIS AND SHE DID THIS TO BE MEAN SHE DID IT FOR REVENGE NOTHING ELSE REVENGE BECAUSE HER DAUGHTER AND MEGAN WERE NOT FRIENDS ANY LONGER.
SO WHAT MOVE ON
WHY NOT TEACH HER DAUGHTER THAT SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO MOVE ON AND IGNORE THINGS WHY NOT TEACH HER TO FIND OTHERS TO HANG WITH WHY DID SHE TEACH HER CHILD TO USE REVENGE INSTEAD OF GOOD VALUES!
December 7th, 2007 at 10:16 pm
NO I HAVE NO IDEA WHO ANY OF YOU ARE, I SAW IT ALL IN THE NEWS, I LIVE IN PA. I AM JUST TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHERE HER MOTHER WAS, WHO THE HELL PUTS UP WITH AANY GUYS SHIT, ESPECIALLY ONLINE. HER MOTHER KNEW SHE WAS DEPRESSED AND HAD ISSUES WITH HERSELF, WHY LET HER BE INVOLVED WITH SOME GUY ONLINE??? HOW DID HE BREAK HER HEART, DID HER MOTHER ASK TO MEET HIM IN PERSON??????TO PROVE HE WAS REAL THEN DEAL WITH HIS LIES, WHERE WAS SHE TO EXPLAIN THESE THINGS TO HER DAUGHTER, THAT WAS ALREADY SUFFERING. I AM ON NO ONE’S SIDE, IF I WERE LORI, I’D TELL MY DAUGHTER FUCK THIS GIRL, I WOULDN’T PRETEND TO GET INFO, SHE WAS STUPID, I ‘M NOT CONDONING WHAT SHE DID, BUT SHE DIDN’T KILL HER. WHY WASN’T HER MOTHER THERE TO SEE ALL THE LIES AND THE BROKEN HEART IF SHE KNEW HER KID WAS MENTALLY ILL? CAN ANYONE EXPLAIN THAT?
December 7th, 2007 at 10:26 pm
LORI SHOULD HAVE DONE ALL THAT, BUT MEGANS MOM SHOULD HAVE DONE THE SAME THING. I AM 28 AND HOLY SHIT AM I HAPPY I DID NOT TO DEAL WITH ALL THIS INTERNET SHIT WHEN I WAS IN SCHOOL. YES MAKE FRIENDS, BUT BE REAL, BE THERE WHEN YOUR KIDS ARE ON LINE, ALL WE CAN DO IS SAY LORI IS ANOTHER KIND OF INTERNET PREDATOR. A CLASSMATE OF MINE KILLED HIMSELF, SHOT HIMSELF IN THE BASEMENT OF HIS FAMILYS HOME AND HIS LITTLE SISTER FOUND HIM AND HIS NOTE THAT SAID HE KILLED HIMSELF BECAUSE HIS GIRLFRIEND BROKE UP WITH HIM, DOES THAT MAKE HER GUILTY? WHAT ABOUT THAT SICK MALL SHOOTER FUCK? WHO IS TO BLAME THERE? WHAT IF MEGAN BROKE A GUN TO SCHOOL AND DID A FEW KIDS IN THEN HERSELF, THIS COULD HAVE PLAYED OUT IN SO MANY WAYS, CAN YOU ALEAST ADMIT THERE ARE 2 SIDES TO EVERYTHING? THAT MEGAN WAS ALREADY SICK, MAYBE HER ANTI DEPRESSANTS DID HER IN, THEY HAVE CRAZY EFFECTS ON KIDS. LORI DIDN’T KILL HER, IS SHE A STUPID FUCK? YES!
December 7th, 2007 at 10:31 pm
DO YOU HAVE TEENS? DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW THEY TAKE THINGS? THAT MOST DO NOT TELL THEIR PARENTS EVERYTHING?
AND IF YOU DON’T THINK SOMEONE CAN BREAK YOUR HEART ONLINE JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE ONLINE YOU HAVE NO CLUE.
YOU ARE TOO OLD TO REMEMBER BEING A TEENAGER
I WORK WITH TEEENS I HEAR HOW THEY TALK WHAT THEY DO, WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT OTHER KIDS. THINGS THEY PLAN TO DO,ETC
AND THINGS THEY DON’T TELL THEIR PARENTS.
AND HOW EASILY THEY CAN HAVE THEIR HEART BROKEN
NOBODY SAID THE GIRL WAS MENTALLY ILL SHE WAS SAD, SHE WAS A “TEEN” THAT ALONE IS MENTAL. THEY HAVE HORMONES GOING THRU THEM TRYING TO CHANGE FROM A CHILD TO AN ADULT.
LORI SHOULD HAVE NEVER STARTED THE WEB SITE IF SHE HAD NOT DONE THIS, NONE OF THIS WOULD OF HAPPEN.
END OF STORY !
CAN ANYONE TELL ME WHY A MOTHER WOULD MAKE A FAKE SITE AND PRETEND TO BE A BOY TO A GIRL WHO WAS LOOKING FOR A BOYFRIEND SHE KNEW SHE WAS SAD, ETC BUT YET SHE LURED HER IN ……..THEN DUMPED HER FLAT ON HER FACE.
HECK THERE WAS A MOVIE ABOUT A WOMAN WHO DID THE SAME TO A MAN AND HE KILLED HER HUSBAND FOR HER THEN KILLED HIMSELF OVER HER.
THE INTERNET IS A GREAT TOOL BUT IN THE WRONG HANDS LIKE LORI ITS A HORRIBLE TOOL!
I HOPE THEY CAN MAKE A LAW AGAINST THIS STUFF.
BOTTOM OF LINE IF LORI HAD NOT MADE THAT MYSPACE PAGE NONE OF THIS WOULD HAVE HAPPEN!
END OF STORY!
December 7th, 2007 at 10:33 pm
LORI DREW WAS THE STUPID FUCK
THE LOW LIFE PIECE OF SHIT WHO LURED A CHILD
WHO DID WHAT SHE COULD TO MAKE HER LIKE THIS FAKE BOY THEN DROP HER.
THEN TELL HER THIS WORLD WOULD BE BETTER OFF WITHOUT YOU.
LORI DREW IS THE STUPID FUCK
December 7th, 2007 at 10:36 pm
NO I AM NOT REALTED TO THAT THING LORI
I WOULD RATHER DIE THEN BE REALTED TO HER.
SHE IS A CHILD AND A CRIMINAL.
SHE WAS WRONG FOR MAKING THAT MYSPACE PAGE WHY DO YOU THINK SHE ERASED IT
SHE KNEW SHE DID WRONG
SHE TRIED TO COVER HER TRACKS BUT IT CAUGHT UP WITH HER
IF SHE HAD NOT DID WRONG SHE WOULD OF TOLD ALL THIS FROM THE START BUT SHE KNEW WHAT SHE DID WAS WRONG AND WAS ONLY WORRIED ABOUT COVERING HER OWN “FAT” ASS .
WHO IS SHE TO CALL ANYBODY ELSE FAT SHE IS FAT HERSELF.
I FEEL SORRY FOR HER CHILDREN NOW THEY HAVE TO GROW UP WITH HER AS A MOTHER AND BE SHUNNED FROM OTHERS BECAUSE OF WHAT HER MOTHER DID.
I SURE WOULDN’T WANT MY CHILD TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER CHILDREN OR GO TO HER HOUSE.
NEVER NOT IN A MILLION YEARS.
SHE IS NOT A MOTHER SHE IS A MONSTER!
December 7th, 2007 at 10:44 pm
I DO REMEMBER BEING A TEENAGER, I’M 28 NOT 98, I KNOW IT SUCKS, BUT YOU HAVE TO ADMIT THAT ONE THING COULD NOT HAVE BEEN WHY SHE KILLED HERSELF, SUICIDE ISN’T SOMETHING YOU DO ON A WHIM, UNLESS SHE WANTED ATTENTION AN NEVER MEANT TO REALLY GO ALL THE WAY. IF SHE DIDN’T KILL HERSELF OVER THAT, IT WOULD HAVE BEEN SOMETHING ELSE. SHE HAD TO BE IN A FRAGILE STATE IF SHE KILLED HERSELF. COME ON, NO ONE KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON IN HER HEAD. I KNOW HOW TEENS TAKE THINGS, THATS WHY THEY HAVE PARENTS THERE TO DOWN PLAY HOW THEY FEEL, TO HELP THEM GET THRU IT, TO RAISE THEM! WHY DID HER MOM LEAVE HER AFTER SHE KNEW “JOSH” DUMPED HER? MAYBE ITS NO ONE’S FAULT. OR EVERYONE’S FAULT. IF THEY MAKE LAWS AGAINST “PRETENDING TO BE SOMEONE ELSE ONLINE” WOULDN’T THAT RUIN THOSE PEOPLE WHO POSE AS TEENS IN CHAT ROOMS TO CATCH PERVS? LIKE THAT DATELINE TO CATCH A PREDATOR SHOW. SEE, ALREADY YOU HAVE PROBLEMS AND FREE SPEECH? YOU AND I ARE SAYING WHAT EVER THE FUCK WE WANT. NO ONE CAN REGULATE THIS CRAP. WHAT SHOULD LORI BE CHARGED WITH, FOR REAL, PLAY THE DEVILS ADVOCATE FOR A SECOND.
December 7th, 2007 at 10:51 pm
YOU ALL ARE BEING SO CRUEL.
A LIFE WAS LOST A YOUNG GIRL TOOK HER LIFE BECAUSE SHE FELT LIKE SHE WAS NOT WANTED SHE DIDNT’ FEEL LOVED ENOUGH NO I DON’T BLAME THE PARENTS BECAUSE AS A TEENAGER I WENT THRU A LOT OF THE SAME THINGS AND MY PARENTS LOVED ME MORE THEN ANYTHING BUT WHEN YOU ARE A TEEN YOU NEED LOVE FROM OTHERS FRIENDS, YOUR PEERS.
AND WHEN THEY DON’T ACCEPT YOU AND THEY PUT YOU DOWN IT MAKES YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR LIFE IS OVER. YES TO US ADULTS IT SEEMS SILLY BUT THAT IS THE LIFE OF TEENAGERS.
SHE WAS NOT A MENTAL CASE SHE WAS JUST A LOST GIRL WHO NEEDED A COUPLE OF TRUE FRIENDS
THE SCHOOLS OUT THERE NEED TO TEACH CHILDREN RESPECT, HONOR, TRUST, ETC YES PARENTS SHOULD BE DOING THIS BUT AS YOU CAN SEE BY WHAT LORI DID THIS IS NOT BEING DONE.
I DO NOT LIKE HILARY BUT HER BOOK IT TAKES A VILLAGE IS TRUE.
IF YOU SEE A CHILD OR TEEN DOING SOMETHING WRONG IF YOU DON’T SAY SOMETHING ABOUT IT AND HE SHOOTS UP THE SCHOOL HOW WILL YOU FEEL.
THINK TO YOURSELF RIGHT NOW IF THIS WAS YOUR DAUGHTER AND SOMEBODY MADE A SITE LIKE THIS AND THEN SHUNNED YOUR CHILD? HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF HE/SHE KILLED THEMSELVES?
IF YOUR DAUGHTER HAD A FRIEND WHO DID NOT WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER ANY LONGER WHAT WOULD YOU DO? WOULD YOU ATTACK HER ON THE INTERNET LIKE A CHILD OR WOULD YOU TEACH YOUR DAUGHTER THAT SOMETIMES IN LIFE PEOPLE COME IN GO IN OUR LIFE AND WE JUST HAVE TO LEARN TO MOVE ON.
AND IF THEY WERE SAYING BAD THINGS ABOUT THEM INSTEAD OF ADDING FUEL TO THE FIRE ACT CIVIAL BE THE BIGGER PERSON AND STAND YOUR GROUND AND STAND UP FOR YOUR OWN VALUES.
BUT INSTEAD THIS MOTHER WENT AGAINST ALL VALUES AND TAUGHT HER DAUGHTER TO BE WICKED, TO HIT BACK, KICK, STOMP WHATEVER YOU HAVE TOO TO GET YOUR REVENGE.
THIS WOMAN IS PURE EVIL !
IF SHE HAD ANY MORALS SHE WOULD TELL THAT FAMILY HOW SORRY SHE WAS.
BUT SHE HAS DONE NOTHING BUT SAY SHE DID NOTHING WRONG.
THAT ALONE SAYS SHE IS GUILTY AND KNOWS IT.
HER DAY WILL COME EVER DEVIL HAS ITS DAY AND HER’S WILL COME.
THEM PEARLY GATES WILL NOT WELCOME HER!
December 7th, 2007 at 10:52 pm
GOOD NIGHT
SLEEP TIGHT, DON’T LET THE BED BUGS BITE!
SWEET DREAMS!
AND TO MEGAN’S FAMILY
YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS!
MY GOD BLESS YOU
YOUR ANGEL IS NOW LOOKING DOWN AND WATCHING OVER YOU!
December 7th, 2007 at 10:57 pm
AND FOR ANY OF YOU WHO ARE TEENS IN SCHOOL, IF ANYONE HAS ANYTHING TO SAY ABOUT YOU, FUCK THEM!! THEY HAVE THE LOW SELF ESTEEM, HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF, DON’T BECOME THE LORI’S AND MEGAN’S OF THE WORLD, ITS SAD MEGAN WILL NEVER GROW UP TO LAUGH AT ALL THESE PEOPLE WHEN THEY GROW UP. WHEN ALL THE PEOPLE WHO HAD SOMETHING TO SAY ABOUT YOU, END UP UNSUCCESSFUL. YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF, YOU HAVE NO CHOICE, DON’T LET ANYONE BRING YOU DOWN, THEY ARE SO NOT WORTH IT, DON;T GIVE THEM THE SATISFACTION OF SEEING YOU SUFFER, BECAUSE THE DAY AFTER GRADUATION YOU CAN LEAVE AND NEVER LOOK BACK IF YOU WANT, THATS IT ITS ALL OVER, THOSE PEOPLE MEAN NOTHING TO YOUM YOU CAN BE WHATEVER YOU WANT NO MATTER WHERE OR WHAT YOU CAME FROM, EVEN IF YOU’RE LORI’S KIDS, DON;T BLAME THEM FOR THEIR MOMS FUCK UP. IF YOU DON’T LIKE THEM, FUCK THEM, FUCK LORI, REMEBER MEGAN AND DON’T USE ALL YOUR ENERGY AND TIME ON PEOPLE LIKE LORI.
December 7th, 2007 at 11:00 pm
VERY WELL SAID!
IF YOU DON’T LIKE THEM, FUCK THEM, FUCK LORI, REMEBER MEGAN AND DON’T USE ALL YOUR ENERGY AND TIME ON PEOPLE LIKE LORI.
December 7th, 2007 at 11:12 pm
Thank you, that shut you all up for the night
December 8th, 2007 at 12:21 am
by the way if josh was a real person would you all be blaming him for this?
December 8th, 2007 at 12:44 pm
I would blame “Josh” for this. Unless Lori told him to mess with Megan. Then i would blame them both. Lori says Megan had problems, well seems to me Lori had some problems of her own. She put Megan through hell during her short time on this earth, and now we’re all giving it back to her twice as hard. She had no right to do this to Megan. Im 100% sure that if someone did this to her daughter..and her daughter took her life, Lori would be blaming them too. Lori can act as innocent as she wants, but we ALL know that she caused all this. She acts as though Megan wasnt hurt, well obviously she was if she took her own life. She was looking for someone to come comfort her, and be her friend, someone to trust, just like the rest of us do. And for Lori [a grown adult] to go and mess with a 13 year old girl who is still trying to find herself in this world is just WRONG. “Megan wasnt getting along with my daughter” is not a reason to do that. Some people just werent meant to be friends.
All I have to say is Lori is giving her kids the wrong message. She is suppose to teach them how to learn to be independent in this world, so that they can grow up and not have to rely on mommy and daddy, and for her to take such a little problem into her own hands and have it turn out to be something so serious just makes me sick. I would imagine that her kids are not going through an easy time, and im not sure if Loris daughter who was once friends with Megan has anything to do with this either, but im sure her mother, Lori, encouraged her to make megans life a living hell. [which megan didnt deserve]. I just hope that Lori’s own kids dont do anything to themselves because of all the harrasment, but maybe it would make Lori realize how Megans parents feel.
I hope that Megans family can get through this and im sure it would make Megan smile if her parents would get back together and get through this together.
December 8th, 2007 at 12:58 pm
quoted by Lori….”My daughter had nothing to do with this. Everyone needs to leave her alone. None of you can possibly know her involvement, and none of you can possibly know what she’s gone through. She’s just a kid. She doesn’t deserve these brutal verbal attacks. Please stop.”
all i have to say is wow…she says that her daughter doesnt deserve these brutal verbal attacks. Well NEITHER DID MEGAN!
wthere the hell is Lori’s brain! this woman needs some serious help!!
December 8th, 2007 at 2:06 pm
Lori should be convicted of MURDER ……
end of story.
You don’t mess with the heads of children…..its cruel and uncalled for.
December 14th, 2007 at 10:37 am
i think that lori drew was all the way wrong in what she did to megan that is murder and she needs to pay for what she did boy she better be glad that was not my daughter because i would have killed lori drew and been done with it lori needs to go to jail for murder.
August 3rd, 2008 at 1:54 am
Lori Drew is a fuckin cunt ass bitch that had nothing better to do with her stupid pitiful life than mess with a poor defenseless little girl. What would she had done if that had been her daughter. Would she want them prosecuted? That fat bitch deserves to be in jail. In the end though, she will get what’s coming to her and judgement day is upon us.
July 2nd, 2009 at 8:18 pm
Megan Had It Coming was written by Jason Fortuny. Lori Drew was acquitted by the judge just today. Regardless, Drew will be screwed and reviled even in death. Lori Drew is is one of the most hated person besides Osama bin Laden/September 11th Terrorists, Jeffrey Dahmer, and Fred Phelps.
July 3rd, 2009 at 1:40 am
what the fuck is wrong with people. i mean seriously. and then acquittal. meanwhile i sweat the traffic summons that i owe. omg, not to mention all the fucking money wasted on the trial. i could have used that money for med school tuition. it makes me want to either go on a killing spree or never leave the house. anyone have a thought on that. i guess i could go on CL and order a hooker so i could do both.
July 3rd, 2009 at 1:40 am
hui
July 3rd, 2009 at 1:41 am
this post didnt let me use the word fucking.
July 3rd, 2009 at 1:42 am
i wrote somethign good and it wont post