Comments on: Online suicide chat cited in girl’s death http://www.p2pnet.net/story/15713 p2pnet.net offers not-your-lamescream news on movies music digital media P2P peer-to-peer TV television file sharing freedom of speech open source product news Wifi mobiles company Sat, 22 Nov 2008 08:54:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.1 By: JC http://www.p2pnet.net/story/15713#comment-437248 JC Mon, 28 Apr 2008 03:34:10 +0000 http://www.p2pnet.net/story/15713#comment-437248 Its a very confusing thing, the important thing to remember with all of this is that those 2000 people were there for her to talk to, but we do not know the context in which she was talking about hurting herself. Even with that, who's to say that college students are at all equipped to deal effectively with a trouble person who is their age in their stressful situation. In Universities, suicide rates sky rocket between March and May. I also must add that the globe and mail was the only paper that cited that incident, and its possible that it is misinterpreted based on the information that she was seeing a counsellor and mentioned hurting herself. Who knows? Really though, its not worth pointing blame. And yes, many people who commit suicide say it with intent to people around them, but still 40 percent do not. It's always better to er on the side of caution, but and 18 year old dorm mate may not know what to do, and may even been in the same situation and unable to provide alternative support. As far as the counselling staff go, shame on them for not fulfilling their duty to warn those involved in the risk of harm. Its a very confusing thing, the important thing to remember with all of this is that those 2000 people were there for her to talk to, but we do not know the context in which she was talking about hurting herself. Even with that, who’s to say that college students are at all equipped to deal effectively with a trouble person who is their age in their stressful situation. In Universities, suicide rates sky rocket between March and May. I also must add that the globe and mail was the only paper that cited that incident, and its possible that it is misinterpreted based on the information that she was seeing a counsellor and mentioned hurting herself. Who knows? Really though, its not worth pointing blame.

And yes, many people who commit suicide say it with intent to people around them, but still 40 percent do not. It’s always better to er on the side of caution, but and 18 year old dorm mate may not know what to do, and may even been in the same situation and unable to provide alternative support. As far as the counselling staff go, shame on them for not fulfilling their duty to warn those involved in the risk of harm.

]]> By: Reader's Write http://www.p2pnet.net/story/15713#comment-433329 Reader's Write Sat, 26 Apr 2008 01:34:50 +0000 http://www.p2pnet.net/story/15713#comment-433329 What could be the circumstances for which she suicide. Study and boyfriend breakage are not the only results. Does'nt seem that american woman forced her to comit suicide. If she can pur her real circumstances, 1 out of above 2000 can advices her to commit suicide. What could be the circumstances for which she suicide. Study and boyfriend breakage are not the only results. Does’nt seem that american woman forced her to comit suicide. If she can pur her real circumstances, 1 out of above 2000 can advices her to commit suicide.

]]> By: Fakie http://www.p2pnet.net/story/15713#comment-432920 Fakie Fri, 25 Apr 2008 20:12:47 +0000 http://www.p2pnet.net/story/15713#comment-432920 It can be hard to keep going after realizing how the world really works. The more sheltered the life, the harder it can be. Sadly, some people can live their whole lives without having this epiphany. It can be hard to keep going after realizing how the world really works. The more sheltered the life, the harder it can be. Sadly, some people can live their whole lives without having this epiphany.

]]> By: Reader's Write http://www.p2pnet.net/story/15713#comment-432740 Reader's Write Fri, 25 Apr 2008 17:46:02 +0000 http://www.p2pnet.net/story/15713#comment-432740 zomg another megan. zomg another megan.

]]> By: Alter_Fritz http://www.p2pnet.net/story/15713#comment-430866 Alter_Fritz Thu, 24 Apr 2008 12:53:23 +0000 http://www.p2pnet.net/story/15713#comment-430866 so where were all those 2000 persons when that young woman needed one to talk too! She was obviously in the ambivalentic phase positivly trying to get the human support she needed so much by doing this openly talking about killing herself! It's a myth that people who talk about it will not do it! They are jsut only in the 3rd phase of suicide before they become calm and relaxxed because they already have decided to do it and are therefor seemingly "ok again" for their peers Those people that activly talk about killing themself will do it eventually too if they don't get the support while they are still in the ambivalentic phase where their mind is battleing with those contending feelings! Obviously those 2000 signers either did not know enough about those phases of suicidality and how to do adequate intervention or they simply did not care about this young woman before she killed herself! It's a real pity! A_F so where were all those 2000 persons when that young woman needed one to talk too!
She was obviously in the ambivalentic phase positivly trying to get the human support she needed so much by doing this openly talking about killing herself!

It’s a myth that people who talk about it will not do it!
They are jsut only in the 3rd phase of suicide before they become calm and relaxxed because they already have decided to do it and are therefor seemingly “ok again” for their peers

Those people that activly talk about killing themself will do it eventually too if they don’t get the support while they are still in the ambivalentic phase where their mind is battleing with those contending feelings!

Obviously those 2000 signers either did not know enough about those phases of suicidality and how to do adequate intervention or they simply did not care about this young woman before she killed herself!
It’s a real pity!

A_F

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